Defeated by Feedback

If you’re someone who gives feedback, you must take it upon yourself to not burn it all down. What do I mean by that? Well it goes like this. When you give feedback, it is entirely possible to be lazy about it all and choose to not be an active participant in the project being worked on. You just want to have it your way, but aren’t really sure what that is, so you’re just going to burn down what exists and let others have to work their ass off to figure out how to put it all back together again.